Doing the Right Thing The obstacles which frustrate the physically handicapped person who is seeking an employment may turn him into cynic. Too often a prospective employer, with a rather unctuous manner, actually tends to degrade the handicapped by proffering employment that is really beneath him and his abilities. The employer appears to be acting in a benevolent manner, but this attitude shows no compassion, for he expects the man seeking a job to remain subservient. This iniquity cannot but give the handicapped a feeling that he is being discriminated against. He does not expect a sinecure, but he has an aversion to the prevalent belief that he should consider himself lucky to find an employment. to lay ones' cards on the table--to talk frankly. He knew he was out of his depth so he laid his cards on the table and asked for assistance.